Perhaps you’re not as steady on your feet as you once were,
maybe you’re finding it more difficult to cook, clean and shop for yourself.
Perhaps you’re having trouble performing daily tasks like washing and dressing.
When age catches up with us it can be extremely frightening for lots of
reasons, but not least because many older people worry about losing their homes
and having to go into residential care.
However, in many cases it’s not necessary to uproot and
completely change your life in this way. It may be possible instead to employ an
agency home carer to help look after you and ensure you’re safe and well,
whilst enabling you to carry on living in the home you love for as long as
possible.
Maintain Your
Independence
There are lots of things to love about getting old. You can
start telling it like it is and no one will bat an eyelid. You can have as many
cats as you like. You can spend your time enjoying your hobbies, watching TV or
having a cheeky sherry at 3 o’clock in the afternoon. You can get up when you
want to and go to bed when you want to. You can spend lots of time with your
grandchildren.
However, moving into a care home can change all that and
when you’re completely compos mentis, it’s pretty irritating to suddenly start
being treated like a child again after all those years of being an independent adult!
The Problem with
Residential Care
There’s evidence to show that older people who move to care
homes quickly become institutionalised and are less likely to carry on doing
things for themselves. A recent BBC programme rather perfectly demonstrated
this with ‘The Young Ones’,
which was shown last year. The programme took six older celebrities and placed
them together in a home designed to transport them back to the 1970s, complete
with décor, TV and food from the decade.
In addition, the residents were treated as if they were
their 70s selves, for example, they weren’t helped to get up the stairs, carry
their suitcases or cook. They were asked to do tasks and carry out job like
activities. In other words they were treated as an adult would expect to be
(which is often not the way we treat older people in the UK).
The experiment was designed to show that our expectations of
older people can detrimentally affect their independence. This was perfectly
illustrated as TV legend Derek Jameson struggled to get his heavy suitcase up
the stairs, complaining all the way – but, when he got to his room and realised
he’d done it, his attitude quickly changed from ‘can’t do’ to ‘can do’.
The point being that in many cases being put in an
institution (and a care home is an institution, even if it’s a very nice one)
can breed institutionalised behaviour and suddenly people who have relied on
themselves for a lifetime forget that they are actually independent and quickly
deteriorate until they become dependent.
Of course, there are lots of instances where residential
care is the best option, but there are other choices available too. Employing an
agency home carer allows the cared for person to remain in control, which makes
it much more likely that they’ll maintain their independence for longer and
live a happy and fulfilling life.
If you’d like to know more about hiring a home carer you can
visit the government website by clicking
here. You’ll find lots of information about funding for home care and
useful advice about your options.
AUTHOR BYLINE
Glen Marsh is a part-time nurse and blogger for St Georges Care Agency - the experts in domiciliary and residential care in Essex and beyond.
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